The hapa male son of a WM/AF is the lowest being existence, the lowliest worm in the universe. They are a whole new level of suck. What are they made of? Genetic trash. A white male who has failed to be a white male and thus acquire a white female. And an Asian woman who thinks Asians are a disgusting race, and is glad to marry out of it, not realizing she carries it in her ovaries. Cursed with a white male sucky Y chromosome, but doomed to inhabit the world as an Asian man. Just abort your hapa sons.
I’m suckiest of suck. What makes me me? What is my self? Where do my personal problems end and my socio-racial problems begin? My dad likes to blame it all on me. I have a loose wire. I’m one sick puppy. Screwed up in the head. But what is my self other than the sum total of nature and nurture? The genes of Asian female mitochondria and a white male y chromosome. Mentally, conceiving my self-image as a white dude, since my Mom was my only Asian relative I was in contact with. Raised during my young days Tiger mom style. Treated by peers as an Asian, with everything that comes with it in American culture. That is what it means to be a eurasian male. What is my self, other than the sum total of hapa genes and the Asian-American social experience? I say dad, it isn’t some political cause or ideology, it goes all the way back to Kindergarten. I remember in 2nd grade starting my essay about me “I’m half white and half asian”. That was my identity in 2nd grade. And I understand Asian women’s need to show off their white boyfriends to prove their American. I used to show off my white dad to prove my genuine Americaness. And I had a better claim to it, since his white dna was in my blood not my vagina. I was the American super-patriot. Out-whiting whitey. I wanted so much to prove my Americaness. Having to prove, what I already was, being born in America to a white dad, surrounded on by white relatives and everything. My whole identity comes from the biracial curse, both genetic and cultural, and if you fail to grasp that, you don’t understand me. I didn’t choose it. Only a masochist would choose to be defined in such a horrid way. It was thrust on me by life. How I would love to just be a generic American. I define myself as a hapa first, because the world has.
What a curse I am! A genetic freak! A frankenstein monster! Elephant man! A horrid scientific experiment. A mule. I shouldn’t exist. I’m a sickly hybrid. I will not reproduce. In the animal kingdom some hybrids are genetically fit to reproduce but never will since their hybrid features makes them repulsive to both species. Of course the Animal kingdom is not cursed with any self-destructive species like the Asian-female who only mates with males from foreign species. That would be quite the biological curiosity.
When I confronted my parents about wm/af and said afs go for the lowest status wms. My mom said “sour grapes” and then said that asian women go for intelligent males! HA intelligence! Some libertarian Nieztsche-wannabe nerd wrote that he grew up on Ayn Rand books, where the brilliant engineer would win over a submissive loving respectful mate who appreciated his genius, but white girls aren’t like that in the real world. They just go for stupid thugs. So Asian girls are the perfect Ayn Rand girls. Rewarding the superior intelligent selfishness of the engineering Objectivist.
I’m not sure who the WMs going after AFs in the 20th century were, maybe other than the GI warbrides, some of the domestic interracial marriages were with progressive multiculturalists with their hearts in the right place. But the 21st century WM who wants AFs is truly repulsive. Bellow is a passage perfectly summarizing the philosophy of the WM who goes for AFs. This psychopath who uses pop sociobiology to argue that alpha males are Gods writes-
” And because I see that our Western Culture has Won, in the end, this means that the West represents a kind of ‘masculine’ ideology, while the East represents a kind of ‘feminine’ ideology. This is also a wider phenomenon that I attribute to exactly-why White Men are memetically the most highly-valued sexual mates, and Asian Women are memetically the most highly-valued sexual mates, around the globe. The reasons for this Western success are many, but it is predominantly due to the divinely-genius innovation of Nuclear Arms by Western thinkers … and the balls to use them wherever & whenever we may please.”
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Perhaps you will now understand how & why alpha males are superior to all others. This superiority is mainly a genetic dominance. White men lead the pack, so-to-speak, but this trend is subject to change as are all other trends in human history. What will most likely happen in the upcoming centuries of the human specie is going to be a cross-cultural merge between extremely masculine “white” men with extremely feminine “yellow” or “golden” (Asian) women. The reason for this happening is within historical contexts — Eastern Asian cultures have cultivated & bred the finest women in terms of “feminine” power. Asian women are physically “beautiful” & symmetrical by American standards, extremely passive & submissive, and also very intelligent through their capacities to memorize factual knowledge (pertaining to their education systems).”
What do we see here?
We see that alpha females (white, American women) are being overtaken by “yellow” women (Asian-American females). What is this trend? Well, I have already stated it and explained it. There is not much left to say except that the trend does not look good for white women. Since white women do not “respect” white men (current alpha males), this relinquishes their entitlement to sexual selection. A woman who is rich, attractive, intelligent, passive, and submissive is going to be preferable — but what happens when this woman is either Asian or American in decent? The Asian woman will be chosen, if not now, then later. The trend points to a feminine paradigm shift outside of “white” women. I imagine that the cause for this is that white women became too adept at imitating the masculinity of white men without reinforcing their own femininity. The result of all this is the “female” philosophies you see on ILP. Women do not know “their place”. Since they do not, it is subject to be changed by the will of the alpha male…
Yeah, Asian chicks are the best women in my opinion: submissive, respectful of strong men, beautiful, responsible, very appreciative, and did I mention respectful already?
Whereas American women are usually fat, ugly, materialistic, selfish, assertive (in spending a man’s money), etc.
Who is the “psychopath who uses pop sociobiology to argue that alpha males are Gods?”
If he’s a psychopath, by your own admonition, why is it that you seem to agree with him?
Your definition of an “alpha female” is interesting. Are you suggesting that in the future, the “alpha female” will be the Asian woman?
I usually define an “alpha female” to be an intelligent, assertive (in demanding to be respected just as much as she respects a man in a relationship ((if she’s assertive at “spending a man’s money” right and left, that’s not exactly financially intelligent, now is it?)) confident, unafraid to communicate clearly with her mate, educated, and therefore able to support herself if necessary. This applies to any woman, regardless of race.
So what is your definition of an “alpha female?”
Sorry about being unclear about the blockquotes. The stuff about AM/WF sons catching footballs was also a quote. The psychopath and the guy who defined alpha females are the same person. I took a bunch of his quotes where he went into his whole alpha philosophy, and then called asian females the perfect specimen of womanhood, made for Nietzschean ubermentches like him. Its only internet supermen who would call Asian females the ideal alpha women. As though the white he-man and Asian china dolls could breed a new superior race. The Eurasian girls would be an improvement on Asian women, but far worse than white. And the sons of these beefcakes of manliness, would be shit like me. I guess this ubermentsch didn’t think that far ahead. But he does neatly some up the worldview of internet asiaphile.
As for MY answer on alpha female. Quite clearly white women are the alpha females, based both on sexuality and their socioeconomic place in society. If you accept the whole alpha-beta paradigm, than you also got to accept within that framework that female worth comes entirely from physical attractiveness. Within the white race, I would generally rank on a North-South West-East axis of superiority with some exceptions. And the racial totem poll goes down from there, in decreasing whiteness. So Asian women would rank far below Latinas, Middle Easterners, Mulattoes and probably South Asians. In the Columbia U study, Asian men found ALL races more attractive than Asian women just as Asian women found all races more attractive than Asian men. So the idea that Asian men are ugly, and Asian women beautiful is a myth. We are both equally ugly, its just that because of the gender double-standard a race of women that throws themself as white men is more desirable to whites than a race of men that throws itself at white women. Asian women make themselves available to low status white men far more than Latinas, Blacks, Indians, Arabs, who have some dignity. Low status whites just make a virtue out of this necessity and call ugly beautiful. But even low status white males, still belong to the highest racial caste, so this artificially inflates the value of Asian women. And this is the goal of AFs all along.
Names, man, names! Who is this racist chucklehead? Is he not published or something?
Also, so you don’t think that women of other races can be “alpha females?” Ever hear of the term “strong black woman?”
The guy is a nobody who posts at random forums. My point wasn’t to emphasize his importance, only the way in which his ramblings perfectly encapsulated the ideology of wm/af. Heres a link to one of his main posts: http://www.ilovephilosophy.com/viewtopic.php?f=9&t=164905
Incidentally, I found him while googling about “omega males”, the asian thing just came up incidentally. It seems no matter where I go in life, or what I do, wm/af just has to shove itself in my face. Its just as bad IRL as on the internet. A lot of things that depress me on the internet, can just be cleared out by going out into real world. But not the wm/af issue, it actually gets worse! Cuz the official stats are that WM/AF outnumber AM/WF 2:1, man I wish i saw 2 for every 1. But from life experience it seems more along the lines of 300:1.
As for the term alpha. If you accept the whole alpha-beta concept from evolutionary psychology, especially as popularized in pop culture through PUAs, then you basically have to take all the baggage that comes with it. And generally it reduces the role of women in sexual selection, to being the “choosers” who pick the manliest traits in men. Thus masculine traits by Black females would actually lower their status. And indeed they are often lumped together with Asian men as the lowest race-gender. Although it was surprising that the Columbia U study found that AMs found BFs MORE attractive than Asian females. Which suggests that Asians of both genders are just a lowly race, with Asian females raising their status on the backs of Asian men. The myth of so-called Asian beauty.
I don’t know if you think the whole alpha-beta dichotomy, and evopsych is worth “Saving” then you can try to play around with the terms, and rename alpha female, as sassy independent strong woman. I don’t find anything “good” in pua evopsych worth saving, but to the extent that it does dominate ideology and discourse in the 21st century, it is real enough for me, since it holds power. But then we have to analyze it as it actually is, and not pretend its something benign. Thus for the sake of this blog, I totally accept all the pop evopsych ideas of the internet, but I make no attempt whatsoever to beautify or cleanse them, I hang them out putridity. At the same time I wont just cast it away as a fiction, since fiction or not it holds real power, and that means something. If we look at the relative stereotypical “alphaness” of Blacks, Latinos, Whites, Asians, and their dating success there is a pretty strong correlation. So the existence of WM/AF is a tribute to its’ real power in the world
It’s interesting and revealing that you chose the term “strong black woman”.
It reveals the opposite end of the racial and gender power dynamics. Black women are stereotypically regarded/depicted as more masculine/aggressive than other women. This works against them similarly to how Asian males are emasculated. I’d say if any subgroup of people could match Asian males, it’s black females.
Revealing, yeah.
I picked that example because as a teenager, that’s who I wanted to BE. Kickass, won’t take bullshit from anybody, and smart as a whip. It was my two close friends in high school who joked that we were all strong black women, and that’s the first time I’d ever heard the phrase, almost as a term of reverence. But hey, that’s just me and my experience.
[…] Quote 1: The hapa male son of a WM/AF is the lowest being existence, the lowliest worm in the universe. They are a whole new level of suck. What are they made of? Genetic trash. A white male who has failed to be a white male and thus acquire a white female. And an Asian woman who thinks Asians are a disgusting race, and is glad to marry out of it, not realizing she carries it in her ovaries. Cursed with a white male sucky Y chromosome, but doomed to inhabit the world as an Asian man. Just abort your hapa sons. […]
A question and an observation.
1. Are you for real? You sound fake.
2. Strictly speaking, there is no such thing as an alpha female. Females don’t sort themselves biologically into hierarchy. There are women who are more valuable than others, but their value is in the eye of the alpha male. Males ascribe value to females and act accordingly.
For a real description of the dynamic, Have you read Lionel Tiger’s MEN IN GROUPS? He’s the one who created the concept of the alpha male, not Roissy and those macho bloggers.
Let’s discuss.
1. Yes I am real, and I think I have something to offer the whole WM/AF thing. Its always good when the rare AF does speak out against WM/AF, and she usually takes a lot of heat for doing it. AMs who complain, are written off as bitter losers. And the WMs who sympathize with AMs come off as patronizing pity. So yeah with 40% of AFs marrying white men, and 50% of their offspring being male (most likely Asian looking since Asian genes seem to be pretty dominant), I assume there must be a pretty big and growing population of mes out there, and I think we have a unique perspective on the whole dynamic. 60% of Asian women do end up marrying Asian men. Hey 60% is a landslide in a presidential election, but when you look at the stats of Asian male outmarriage, and the outmarriage of women of ALL other races, 60% is pitiful. So thats why I often paint broad strokes in my scathing attacks on “asian women” in general. Many Asian women explicitly mention cute hapa babies as a reason for going white, so I think its informative to let people know what happens to 50% of those cute hapa babies when they grow up.
2. I made the exact same point about there not really being any alpha females except to the extent that they are selected for by alpha males. I’m not trying to defend the alpha-beta thing as objectively true in any sense, but to the extent that it holds popular power and sway in our culture, its true enough for me. The whole cultural vs biological debate over interpretation is meaningless, since our culture accepts biological determinism. Not to get too big picture, lets just say for the purposes of this blog I’m going to use alpha-beta the same way it is used on the rest of the internet. At the same time I make no effort to soften alpha-beta rhetoric, precisely because I don’t see anything in it worth saving from the dark side. They can have it.
Anonygirl was actually responding to a long quote from a WM/AF defender, who said that Asian females were becoming the new alpha females since they were being selected for by the dominant males (whites) over white girls who have become too bitchy and feminist. I obviously strongly disagree with this. And have pointed out that according to the oft cited Columbia U study Asian men find Asian women just as unattractive as Asian women find Asian men. But since females do the choosing in sexual selection, the fact that they are open to mating allows them to acquire low status white males and thus artificially raise their status.
“A white male who has failed to be a white male and thus acquire a white female. And an Asian woman who thinks Asians are a disgusting race, and is glad to marry out of it, not realizing she carries it in her ovaries.”
Hitler would have loved you, dude
You should post a photo of yourself, so we can have a face to the blogger. IIf you’re reallyma If you’re really a “genetic freak” and “Frankenstein monster” then post photos and prove it. From all your posts, you just sound like a troll trying to get affection and pity from others. It’s quite sad… But maybe this venting helps you… Who knows. So anyways, post a photo of yourself and we’ll be the judge of whether you’re really what you say you are…….
Hi i am a white female, with a Chinese boyfriend we don’t have any children or anything yet but we definitely plan to in the future, From reading some of your posts I can get what your saying your father can’t relate to being an asian male because he simply he isn’t one. do you think it would be the same situation if i have a daughter who looks more chinese than white? will i not be able to relate. I like to think that people of different cultures. maybe i am just idealistic.
Sometimes my boyfriend says bad things about WM/AF coupling because he sometimes feels that maybe the reasons behind the relationships are not pure. and AMWF relationships are a bit more pure. but who knows i think its not true love is just love. perhaps you have uncles or asian male friends who can relate to you.
White females dating Asian males are the last people meant to read this blog. And unfourtantely I’ve already gotten 2 commenters from them. Nothing in this blog is meant for them, and in fact they shouldn’t even read it. But since your here I will say this. AM/WF is a great thing, and all the negative stuff I say about WM/AF just makes AM/WF more of a triumph in the face of a hostile society. The apoligists for WM/AF try to turn it into some kind of Romeo and Juliet story, when in fact its hard to think of a more socially acceptable and indeed encouraged relationship. AM/WFs are the real Romeo and Juliets defying massive pressure and media bombardment. For some reason from what I’ve read, Asian familes even suicidally ENCOURAGE WM/AF while discouraging AM/WFs. In my post I had a long post by a proud AM/WF son, where he praised the courage and virtues an AM needs to have to win the heart of a white girl in our deeply anti-asian male society. Heck, there are tons of white guys complaining that its too hard to win white girls anymore. And even on online dating, a Asian male has to make $250,000 MORE than a white man just to get a response from a white girl. I can’t speak for Eurasian daughters of AM/WFs. But from personal experience, and from the blog post I quoted, it seems like the few AM/WF sons there are, are very athletic self-confident, proud and successful with the ladies.
And its not just about the masculinity of Asian males. In one post I asked “do Asian females not just hate Asians but also women?” Because despite claims that WM/AF represents some kind of “yellow feminism” against the deep patriarchy of the East, most white guys who praise Asian women praise Oriental submissiveness, and then bash white women for being too feminist and bitchy. Thus while WM/Af is an explicit attack on AMs, it is also a less loud implicit attack on white females and feminism. So I think AM/WF is a powerful answer to the Asiaphiles who think the ideal woman is a submissive obedient respectful China doll.
IDK one possible theory is that white females are perceived by the establishment as the highest females, and Asian males as the highest colored minority, and so racist and patriarchal whitemale society concentrates all its resources on the humiliation of Asian males and white females.
Anyway it takes great courage, intelligence, integrity, pride, and tons of other virtues to be a white female dating an Asian male. So I’m not surprised that your caring hearts would find this unread blog at the very edge of the internet. But all I can say is you ain’t welcome here. And the fact that I’ve planted the least hint of worry into WFs in relations with AMs, just shows how everything I do turns into a catastrophic failure.
And for anyone who shouts- DOUBLE STANDARDS- that I hate WM/AF so much and yet praise AM/WF to the skys. Let this just be a testament to the fact, that as I have always said, I’m not some Asian supremacist nazi, concerned about preserving the purity of the Asian race. In fact, I would be so moderate to say that it doesn’t even have to be a perfect 1:1 ratio, that if there is a slight imbalance of WM/AF to AM/WF couplings, its not totally horrible. What drives me crazy, and is emasculating to every Asian male, is to see a 300:1 ratio of WM/AFs to AM/WFs. I don’t think I’ve seen a AM/WF in several years, but I see like 10 WM/AFs a day. When the imbalance is that ridiculous, either there is something deeply wrong with Asian males, Asian females, white males, white females, our whole damn society, or maybe all 5. How do you think it feels to be an Asian male constantly bombarded, not just in the media, but just walking down the street, with tons of WM/AF couples on every corner. And of course the ideology that justifies it is pretty explicitly anti-Asian male. Its the physical manifestation of every Asian male stereotype, being the worst insults you could throw at a male. There is nothing more humiliating and emasculating. And yeah, the reason I keep harping on being an Asian-looking WM/AF son, is because I feel it double. And I actually get WM/AFs to give a damn. They don’t give a shit when AMs whine about it. But at least when I do it, they have to think twice about their future sons. I think few AMs would be willing to be as open and self-berating as me, but I don’t mind being self-hating, since what is there to hate in me? WM/AF
With the current ratios of WM/AF, its easy for an AM to feel like he is the bottom of the barrel, unfit to survive in the game of sexual selection, the lowest of the low. At least he knows one Asian male who successfully reproduced- his own dad. When I think that I don’t even have an Asian male Y chromosome, I feel like I’ve failed as an Asian male before even being born.
So yeah when you see more WM/AF couples on the street than AM/AF, and yet AMs need to make $250,000 more just to get a freaking response from a WF on online dating, it gets me pretty pissed off, without giving a crap about Asian or white racial purity or anything like that. Its not that I care about racial purity, its that every female race EXCEPT Asian females do, and its not like Asian females are so open multicultural since they only date whites. If Asians just stopped dating each other, and every Asian guy went for a white girl, and every Asian girl went for a white guy until we became one race. I could careless, in fact that would probably be a great thing for America and the world. So thats how much I love interracial dating, I love it so much, I’d be happy if Asians stopped dating each other. Its the real power relations that drives me crazy.
Anyway to repeat a last time- if your a white female dating an asian male, don’t come here anymore!
You are a fucking racist piece of cunt splooge.
@Sarah Don’t even let him get to you…this guy likes to post attention seeking entries so others will not want to stay in a mixed relationship. IMHO, he is probably just a racist Nazi, pretending to be mixed, so he can try to abolish our wonderful diverse world. Either that, or he is seriously messed up in the head. In that case, it’s not fair for others to read his crap and get brainwashed into his psycho beliefs…
The only easy Eurasian female I’ve known was half Indian, half English. As for East Asian Eurasians, I’ve never known one to be easy. If anything, socially, they behave like the average White girl or a little more shy. Certainly not generally are EA females sluts! As an EA myself, I have slept with one man who I am still with. I’m 20.
Oops sorry, replied to the wrong post … the above comment was meant for the ‘Asian males and white females are the ones who make the beautiful white-looking babies Asian women dream of’ post.
I need to learn to bold quote. Just so theres no confusion the stuff about Eurasian sluts is actually a quote from a AM/WF Hapa male’s blog.
A good strategy might be to separate things by several lines, or characters, like this:
BLAH BLAH BLOG ENTRY!! Blah blah…and then the other day, I read this idiot’s blog entry that read thusly:
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“OMG EURASIAN GIRLS ARE HUGE SLUTTTTTTS!! BLAH BLAH RACIST STUFF BLAH!! ANGRY ANGRY!!”
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Now isn’t he just a silly idiot? Of course not all Eurasian girls are sluts, in fact, a good friend of my sister’s is Eurasian and she’s prim as a peach! So’s my sunday school teacher, in fact! Blah blah blah your blog entry continued, etc.
See? Just a thought. Or you could ask that guy Randy how to do the block quotes thing. He seems to do it in all of his comments.
@ StuffEurasianMalesLike … yeah I must admit I wasn’t sure whether that’s what you were implying or you were reporting what someone else said (forgive me, I stay up ’til all hours of the morning and even end up posting comments on the wrong entry lol). Still a pretty crazy generalisation, though. The nerdy Eurasian boy is also mad, the few Eurasian males I’ve known were within popular cliques at school and had active, healthy social lives. I don’t see why so much importance is placed on a teen’s social standing though anyway, it’s not like it benefits them in adulthood. Most of the people in ‘popular cliques’ at school are unexceptional at everything and end up with painfully average jobs.
EurasianMale, your blog is quite intriguing to read as i have pondered what it was like to have a WM/AF parents: will an inferiority complex develop upon the offspring, a sense of unfit for existence, etc. I don’t exactly know what your mothers ethnicity is, as “Asian” is generally a broad term, even if the US definition generally leans towards NEA and SEA. Knowing your mothers ethnicity is useful as you probably know Chinese, Japanese, Koreans, Laotians, Thais, Filipinos, etc are all different people and their oversees counterparts are entirely different too. ( For white Americans, the European groups that immigrated to the US mostly have intermingled with each other to create one group which is easily to “stereotype” them, hence i have no questions about your father.) For example SEAs like Filipino women suffer an intense inferiority completion to whites which may be natural from colonial mentality and lack of admirable “qualities” like “beauty,” civilization,etc by others eyes. Filipino women raised with american ideals generally don’t suffer such unless they are influenced by their homeland (ex on asiasfinest.com, a good deal filipino women love noting the superiority of half Filipino women over pure blooded ones in beauty lvls.) Another example are Japanese. The Japanese women of the homeland would be disgusted with marring non-Japanese guys as such is a shame and ruins japanese homogeneity. After the “disaster” of WWII America, the japanese american women have lost there homogeneity belief and might as well feel free to marry white guys. For koreans of the old and new world, there beliefs are similar to japan except that korean americans are more liklely to belief in racial purity as they weren’t culturally damaged like the japanese were. Both groups however largely follow “nordic” beauty standard despite not wanting to be “white” though. For whatever reason, i have been suspected your mom to be a chinese person from the mainland. Oversees chinese are general suspicious of marriage with other races until recently from more openness. An inferiority complex of women in oversees communities are rare unless they have gone mad. For mainland women…… ever since the opening of china under deng xiaoping, women have truely gone mad. Traditionally, chinese women would dare not marry non-chinese men period, especially white ones which the chinese often associated “white” features with an ugly monkey since the beginning of time. Whether it be tocharians, dutch, Brits, etc, marrying a white person was never done. All other man were inferior in chinese gals eyes, even when western civ surpassed the chinese civ during the 19th century. Yet during the 1980s, a sharp change occurred among the women and some chinese men about white men. Some how the descendent of the celestial yellow emperor had become inferior to at best the descendent of Germanic tribes with no math, sci, writing for the greater part of history. Is such natural after an event called the cultural revolution severely damaged the minds of the chinese female? So is your mom a mainlander chinese, EurasianMale?
ps. nuclear weapons, whether one might consider the man western or even white, the ashkenazim jew is always a semitic man, Albert Einstein
If by “intelligence” once means analytic reasoning skills, it seems that the Northeast Asians –Chinese, Japanese, and Koreans — are somewhat more intelligent than the white norm. (I believe the I.Q. difference is generally listed as somewhere between 2-8 points, depending on the study). Most of the evidence also seems to point to New World Indians’ scoring slightly below whites. Thus, Mestizos (white-Indian mixes) would have slightly lower IQs than whites, while Eurasians (white-East Asian crosses) would have slightly higher IQs. The correlation between the increasing blondeness of high I.Q. Eurasians would be somewhat mitigated if the less intelligent Eurasian men happened to import intelligent East Asian women to make up for their competitive disadvantage on the marriage market, while the more intelligent Eurasians would marry less intelligent blondes (i.e., European derived females). The key is how much more intelligent the high status Eurasian males are, and how much more intelligent Asian females are vs. European females
In addition, the most intelligent Eurasian men might also be the most “nerdish” as Mr. Sailer would say. [See Steve Sailer’s essay “Nerdishness: The Great Unexplored Topic” at http://www.iSteve.com/nerds.htm ]. This would make it rather more difficult for them to attract high status “blondes.” What I am saying is that there is a difference between the macho Mestizo and black men, who attain high status in most likely extroverted fields (say entertainment, sports, law, politics, and business) while highly intelligent Eurasians might be funneling into scientific fields, making their values, and their possible mates, a bit different. Melinda French Gates for instance, to use the classic example of a nerd-wife, is attractive, but not blonde.
And one last thing: I am sure no one who reads VDARE has watched any pornography of late, but if anyone would care to, they would find that the only class of women that rivals busty blondes in disproportionate numbers in American pornography is East Asian females. Unlike brunette European females, Asian females don’t look particularly impressive when blonded in my opinion, and the fact that few Asian females in these films bleach their hair like their European counterparts seems to confirm that most porn viewers share my impression. In other words, Asian females (whether it be for cultural or biological reasons) are in some cases competitive with blondes. (From personal experience in a region of the country where there are many Eurasians- due to the fact that the area is 95%+ white and the non-white marriage pool somewhat limited – I can attest that many Eurasian men prefer Asian females for the same reasons as some European men do).
Also, I am not sure the blonde preference is as dominant among people from Asia as it is among Europeans, and Asians have not been as culturally dominated by Europeans as Amerindians have. Though certain European features were traditionally praised by Asians (fair skin), others have not been emulated (large noses, reputed body odor due to diet, hirsute body, etc.). In addition, though Japanese may comment on the nice figures that European women have (i.e., Europeans tend to exhibit more sexual dimorphism), they will also comment that many American women are too large and, as they would say in the States, “big-boned.” In other words, even if blondeness is preferred by Eurasians, there are other attributes that work against them (their size in comparison to petite Asian women, the perception by many Asians that European women, and Europeans in general, age faster and don’t keep their appearance up after the bloom of youth, etc.).
As Mr. Sailer notes, most Asian men are marrying their own kind, while more Asian women are marrying out. If the same trend holds true in the offspring, one must look for what the women prefer…which as Mr. Sailer would say, are not blondes, but tall dark and handsome. Perhaps a Eurasian like the late Brandon Lee?
One thing that has struck me is how so many East Asian women keep their eye out for the kind of nerdy white guys that white women pay little attention to. For example, Darva Conger and the other 49 female participants on the “Who Wants to Marry a Millionaire?” show required Fox to promise them that their prospective husband had made his million in any field other than computers. In contrast, Asian women realize that shy, smart guys make good husbands because they’d rather come home to their wife and kids than chase other women in bars. Plus, they just might make a gazillion on IPO stock options! If white women don’t wise up to rewards of marrying geeks, the Eurasian kids of the future will tend to do extremely well on the Math portion of the SAT, and thus will be well set to prosper in the increasingly technology-dominated economy.
Interestingly, many of the most striking racial differences can be thought of as resembling faint sex differences. For example, contrast the triumph of Japanese manufacturing with Japan’s near-total failure in the brutally competitive global market for celebrities. (A recent survey revealed that Americans believe the most famous living Japanese person is Bruce Lee, a dead Chinese guy.) It’s the mirror image of African-Americans’ undistinguished technological achievements versus their outstanding performance in producing media personalities.
Why? Japanese talents extend far beyond chopstick-handling to a set of extremely masculine intellectual skills. Tests show they tend to excel at objective abilities like mathematics and mentally manipulating 3-d objects through “single-tasking” (focusing deeply upon a one impersonal logical problem). Blacks, on the other hand, are often better at typically feminine, more subjective cerebral skills like verbalization, emotional intuition and expression, sense of rhythm, sense of sty! le, improvisation, situational awareness, and mental multi-tasking. Michael Jordan’s brain, for instance, enables him to anticipate his opponent’s every move while simultaneously demoralizing his foe with nonstop trash-talking. (Try it sometime. It’s not easy.)
Next, think about physical and emotional/personality traits. Here the races are arrayed in the opposite order. Blacks tend to display more of typically male qualities like muscularity, aggressiveness, self-esteem, need for dominance, and impulsiveness. In contrast, the Japanese economy benefits from a male workforce endowed with more typically feminine virtues like small fingers and fine motor skills, cooperativeness, humility and anxiety, loyalty, long-term orientation, diligence, and carefulness. Combined with their first-rate masculine mental skills, these make Japanese companies powerhouses at exporting superbly engineered machinery.
Compared to Japanese organizations, black communities tend to be physically and psychologically masculine, sometimes to the point of disorderliness. Yet a relatively high percentage of individual black men achieve fame by possessing charismatically masculine looks and personalities, without the nerdishness that Dilbert-style male intellectual skills often induce.
The interracial marriage that epitomizes Obamaist liberalism is Black Males with White Females, the interracial marriage that epitomizes the traditional anti-feminist family values of Conservatism is White Males with Asian Females.
if you want to ensure your kids will have a good chance of becoming elites, don’t race mix because the act of race mixing leads to children inheriting cognitive profiles that will make their becoming elite even more unlikely.
Also, don’t intermarry with Asians unless you use a white egg donor or sperm donor to produce an all white kid because Eurasians inherit the Asian characteristics that keep Asian workers from getting past the famous corporate “bamboo ceiling”.
Eurasian guys inherit the Asian characteristics that make prevent them from getting dates and inspiring white guys to follow them such as low sex drives, introversion, general lack of personality, smaller penises, more difficulty building muscle, lack of athleticism, lack of humor, and shortness (Over 60% of American CEOs tend to be over 6 feet tall).
Eurasian men also tend to not be notably intelligent or academically distinguished in my experience. However Eurasian women appear to be more academically impressive than Eurasian men. So, there appears to be minimal synergystic effect when combing high Asian IQ with high white IQ.
Eurasian women appear to be a bit brighter, but they have less SMV to elite white men because they inherited the East Asian lack of boobs, butt, and less striking facial features.
I suspect the reason the elites used to be strongly opposed to race mixing in the past was because they knew race mixing would lower their children’s chances of entering the elite.
First of all, women of all races aren’t as deterred to using egg donors because egg donation carries much less of a “cuckolding” stigma that using a sperm donor does for men.
Additionally, women – especially foreign women who are trying to endear themselves to native men with higher SMV – can be pressured to “fit in” with culture of the native population. If this social pressure included insisting Asian women use a white egg donor in their WM-AF relationship, then they would largely give in to the social pressure in order to gain social status.
Asian women are willing to date even the lowest status white men over their own Asian men because Asian men have such low social status, even compared to white Omega males. they’re lower than Omegas from the point of view of Asian women because even Omega white men have an easier time picking up Asian women than Asian men.
If they are willing to date lower status white men in order to fit in socially, why wouldn’t they also be willing to use a white egg donor?
There have probably been cases where an infertile WM-AF couple used a white egg donor to produce all white offspring, and my suggestion of using white egg donors routinely in mixed Asian-White relationships would not be any morally different than an infertile WM-AF couple using IVF.
Also, the alternatives to not using an egg donor, such as barring interracial marriage completely and reducing Asian women’s legal status to a secondary level, would be much less appealing to Asian women immigrants. Egg donation is a much gentler way to deal with interracial relationships than any other.
AFs have lower SMV and fewer options than white women. Therefore they’d likely tolerate using a white egg donor.
Afterall, if many Asian women can tolerate marrying white Omegas and lower Betas, then there’s no reason why white egg donations can’t become the norm in WM-AF pairings.
Also, I don’t see how routine usage of white egg donors in WM-AF couplings is more strange than seeing younger men getting into LTRs with older women or tolerating wives becoming obese or.
seems to be practicing the very thing you would think he is criticizing – namely judging individuals not by their character (or in this case acting ability), but by skin color, ethnic background — RACE.
Pearl S. Buck must be turning over in her grave…after all…she was a woman who was BORN in Asia, spoke Chinese as a first language and yet…had a WHITE face!
Where I come from, you don’t fight an evil by adopting and practicing it.
Furthermore, “white males” (whatever that means) seem to like Asian women for a reason and it goes well beyond the shape of their faces and bodies. In fact, Asian women often represent many of the top values that ANY man would want in a woman, never mind a “white” one.
Putting people into silly little boxes based on eye shape, and past ethnicity needs to come to an end one day. America has become a culture of demographic interest-group warfare. And advocates like him are sadly part of the problem, not the solution. Don’t let’s pretend that this Political Correctness is anything other than a form of the very same evil that supposed anti-racist proponents seek to wipe out.
What the fuck are you talking about?
I’m sure there are other biracials out there who feel about the same or worse than you.
The whole White Male Asian Female thing is just a complete fucking catastrophe. Your a miserable Asian-looking Eurasian in the West? Well, I’m a miserable White-looking Eurasian in the East.
I feel so depressed because i find no one talks to me at my new school… or people here (Asians 99.999% in this school; Singaporean) are very hard to talk to. It seems I am always the guy trying to do the talking, not much conversation comes back my way, i cant remember the last question that was direct at me. I am always the “transmitter” never the “reciever”. I really don’t know what is wrong with me, i want to be accepted by the people around me here, i want to laugh with them at their local jokes, I want to be patted on the back, I want to be playful by stealing their IC and joking at the photograph and i want them to do that to me, I want to congregate in a group of 4 people with them, I want to be like them. I don’t know why it is so hard.
I am a Eurasian, but unlike most Eurasians I don’t look Eurasian. Most Eurasians look more local or malay, but i look almost totally caucasian. I believe people here think that they can better relate to people of their own race or category. FUrthermore i am a foreigner, British passport holder. You can rebutt me by pointing at T (who is Singaporean Indian), H (who is a vietnamese citizen), E (Malaysian citizen). Yes! They are foreign too, they are accepted and they get hugs and most importantly-conversation. But you fail to see that they are under the same category-Asian, whereas i am completely out of-…. no…. I am in that category because of my mixed blood, but i look like i am completely out of it. Maybe that is why I am isolated from other people.
It is hard to get into their clicks, they already have formed them since when… to enter them now would look foolish and wannabe-like. Furthermore, they already have their vocal-time full with their own click members, no time to socialise with others
I feel like i am on an island populated with monkeys, and i am the only ant on that island with no one to relate to or socialise with. The only form of socialisation thing i get is- the occasional “hi” “bye” which I INITIATE with a smile… it is never initiated towards me… never… well 98% of the time anyway. By the laws of economics, it has been said that the utility of activities declines as more of that activity is done, well… my utility derived from “hi”s and “bye”s (self-initiated) is declining… I want more… I want deeper socialisation with these people. I am not talking about romance and relationships (as most teenagers often dwell on), ha, I cant even have that when I have not got the basics right yet…
Via logical examination, there must be something odd or wrong with me, but WHAT? I speak the language… there should be no communication gaps, but there is. Even my PW work group, I hardly know what is going on, i can hardly pick up intel from their discussions (which is mostly between the 3 Chinese girls, the only other guy is hardly around cos of his hockey stuff, and no one fills me in on the plans until i ask). People have often said language overcomes barriers, i fear it is not so, for i now believe within every Asian (after reading a post from another Eurasian in this forum)- lies a mechanism in their breast which triggers off ‘alienate the foreign looking person- we cant relate to him/her, stay with our own kind, they relate to us’. I believe almost every Asian is like that now… they communicate to our kind (1st generation Eurasians and
Caucasians) only when they need to… it is apparent in all walks of life – be with your own kind- the malays all sit together at cafeterias (even in NS, there are seperate sides of the Cafe, 1 for muslims and 1 for chinese)…the Indians also have their brotherhood as
do the Chinese… that is the way our world works… bondage by ethnicity… HENCE I believe the problem with me lies within my ethnicity, i am not them, well i am halvely them… but i look totally “un-them”.
It cant be race alone can it? Most Eurasians should be well off with the locals, since Eurasians are a link between the Asians and Caucasians… they speak local tongue,,, most of them can grasp local jokes, plus to (local guys) the “Eurasian chicks are hot”. Maybe I am not a girl, then it would otherwise be easier to socialise… but then only with guys… and the guys would only want to talk to me for my body…. but then again that is better than being alone on my island. So it must be gender… if I were a girl, I would get more social click with the guys… maybe not the girls, cos they would think me a bimbo who attracts all the guys… but in my present case, most local guys would think i am attracting all the girls… but that is not true I AM NOT, i cant even hold a simple
conversation with them because they are hard to talk to. THe other day I was in a game server; from my voice on the mic, the local players recognised me as “angmor”, i said i was Eurasian… the 1st thing replied back was “got sister to intro or not”… I said “if i said yes, you will want to be my friend and get her intro… you also wont ban me from the server if i misbehave cos u want to be introduced yes?” The guy replied…. “true.. hehe”. When i was in a previous school for 1st 3 months, most of the guys kept asking me if I got a sister… (actually I don’t)… when i replied “no”, their interest in me absolutely declined to nil… Maybe to get on with people I must “have a sister”, then at least I could get some conversation… maybe…
Steven from upstairs is also 1st gen Eurasian, he tells me he never associates with his local school friends because “they are hard to talk to”, he hangs out with expat white friends… I think race is a factor in deciding how much social stuff u will get in a local school, race and citizenship.
But i cant be too shallow in my assessment, maybe it is how i carry myself. I think i am ok… it is just that no-one asks me anything, it is always me trying desperately to make small-talk. It is as if they don’t want me to make small-talk because they are not into
it, yet they do small-talk with their friends, and their friends are local and more importantly -Asian. So i hardly know what is wrong with my character. Probably i am too open-minded and very questioning? They don’t like questioning people? I ask why cant Art
Work be folded? Maybe that warrants alienation… among other things i ask which i cant recall. THen again perhaps my views of ok sociable behaviour may differ from the local view, which brings culture into consideration. But culture is most often influenced by
race, and race is influenced by nationality. Again Race is brought into the assesment.
I think X from my PW group does not like me… or has some kind of problem with me, i can read it in her behaviour, no conversation, no greetings etc – the usual- i am used to. But unlike most others, she does not make eye contact this time, which segregates this case from all other cases of alienation. I must find out what is the problem, and try to perfect myself by apologising and repenting as is the right thing to do in chivalry. Because if there is something wrong with me which she detects, there are other people who may alienate me for the same reason, so i had best remove that reason. I sent her an email asking informally “are we cooL? Do you have a problem with me or anything i have done to offend you?” That was last week, i have gotten no reply. After this week i will send it again… stating that I will ask her in person the next time i see her. But i wonder why she would not reply? She muist have seen her mail because I have recieved many forwards from her (not as if she emailed it to me, she emailed it to the class, the class list has my email address on it, so it indirectly got to me as well, don’t think it a want to be friendly with me), meaning she has been accessing her email account recently…but not replying to me msg. So i have no idea what is wrong, i grow more nervous that i have done something wrong, but what?
Because of this, i think i am an abomination. I am a filthy cross-between an angmor and a chinese mother (who most likely is an spg; they are not well liked apparently; although she denies it). I think myself weak and putrid, not fit enough even to warrant any
conversation from people… Not knowing what is exactly wrong also makes me sad…because I lack the means to improve…to improve i must know the problem before i can change. I hope a psychiatrist can help me find my problems. Because i am what i am racially… i am foreign and i am what i am culturally… i share diff. cultural values and hence diff life-styles… so i find it hard to relate to them and they find it hard to relate to me… that must be the problem i think. Race defines culture… culture defines lifestyle, lifestyle defines how well u relate to others (mostly of the same lifestyle)… in the end it all comes down to race… race, culture and lifestyle are all intertwined. This is why countries and peoples exist… Perhaps back in my homeland, I am as normal as a twig in the Thames. But here I am a freak to the locals…
I am sorry if I have offended anyone here… it is just that i am tired of whining to myself and typing my feelings in a notepad which no one reads,,, it would be pointless if no one knew how i felt… I just have this desire to express myself. I am sorry if I offended anyone with my words or expression. I just need to let it out…
[ sent her an email asking informally “are we cooL? Do you have a problem with me or anything i have done to offend you?” ]
You have just worsened your situation with that E-Mail. Now she probably thinks you had/have intentions with her.
The only solution here was to let it be, but it is too late now. It is now up to your imagination on how to fix the (bigger) situation you have brought upon yourself.
[ i share diff. cultural values ]
You have no culture. You must accept yourself for who you are and not try to be either of your halves. Initiating conversation with everyone within hearing distance also makes you look awkward and sound desperate. You can not force conversations upon someone who would rather not. Just be yourself.
It is the right of a racist to hold his views on race, and to act accordingly. One of the things I wish to see is a Nation where no one, including a racist, is persecuted for his views. I am not a racist in so far as I do not believe that white genes are superior solely by virtue of being white, but I do believe that over the millenia we have conquered many more trials than other races and this has made us stronger. One fruit of this struggle is our clearly superior civilization. Thats why I am adamantly against unrestricted immigration, because it is introducing a flood of people whose gene pools have been deteriorating for centuries and whose culture reflects this sad state of affairs. There are some, including in our government, who’d say I’m a full-fledged racist because of what I said above, but I’ve little doubt that to many I just dont qualify as a racist. Just one of the problems of being a moderate, I guess. But, just because I have a biracial child doesnt mean I’d accept any inferior person as a mate, and the degeneration of our own gene pool which the Jews started means that many white women would fail my requirements in a mate. The current state of my sons development (at 5 years of age he’s taller than my waist and able to find his way around my computer. He puts in CDs and uses the explorer to find his favorite games, videos, etc and hes aware of the major keyboard shortcuts, which he uses to copy stuff helikes to his own folder over my network. he also builds complex models correctly with only occasional help) is proof that I selected his mother well, even though I didnt have any white women to choose from. And I’m not at all interested in forcing him on those whose beliefs can not include him. In an America where communities make their own choices and set their own standards plenty of excellent communities will consider themselves lucky to get him. These communities will get along just fine with those who enforce strict standards of genetic purity, after all, its a question of respecting others beliefs. The difference between this and what goes on in America today is that this respect for beliefs is only one-way.
Where we draw the line depends on each community, and any community where I settle permanently will consider each case individually. Just because I myself have a half Japanese son doesnt mean that any half Japanese would get my vote, even assuming the other parent was white. I would make a special regulation for Jews, but thats because they have shown such a capability to infiltrate and manipulate over the centuries that any nation which wants to remain whole needs to keep an eye on them.
Can’t wait for the Day of the Rope…hope they spare my kids LOL.
– The guy above me
The writer and severe and long standing self-esteem issues. I hope you get well soon.