Its ironic that in some of my recent posts I have actually found myself in the position of actually defending my WMAF parents somewhat, in explaining that no they are not the stereotypical bad WMAF couple. I guess to some extent this is a mark of how things have changed. Eurasian issues are very much in the air now. And the arguments of this blog and others have sunk in. People are realizing just how toxic WMAF couples are and the impact this has on their children. And compared to what other Eurasians are now saying, I’ve become actually something of the centrist-moderate. I don’t think this is because of any change or mellowing or softening on my part. If you go back to my 2011 posts, you will find old posts saying the exact same thing. And I think its important that clear lines be drawn on this issue, not just for personal reasons, but to understand the Hapa phenomenon as a sociological trend.
I have read the blogs and comments, of those who do come from the stereotypically bad, classic WMAF couples. Its pretty heart-wrenching, and the results are what you would expect from the offspring of a relationship that hates them. These Eurasians have a powerful role to play in giving testimony against the crimes of their parents. However it is to easy for a WMAF couple to then say, well thats not me. I’m one of the good ones. I’m sorry you had terrible, shitty, parents, but its wrong of you to blame all WMAF couples for the experiences of your parents as individuals. And thats why its important to me to state clearly, that no it is you bad WMAF couples who have made me hate my parents. Where my parents, do in anyway adhere to WMAF tropes, I have not been shy about exposing them on this blog, and airing all of our family dirty laundry. There aren’t all that many skeletons. And I hold them to a very high standard of political correctness, calling them out for even implicitly racist assumptions. In their defense, this is a very high standard that few people could probably meet. Imagine having political-level coverage, inside your own home 24/7, seizing on the racist implications of any statement you make in privacy.
So yeah, for the Hapa children of bad, racist, sexist, WMAF couples, there will always be “Good” WMAF couples, saying they are being unfairly tarred. And this brings me to the larger point of this post which is the racist Tourette’s of these “good” WMAF couples. I’m referring to those WMAF defenders and apologists, who post on the comments section here and on other Hapa sites. These WMAFs have every incentive to show themselves in the best possible light. As its all anonymous, all they have to do is not be racist for 2 paragraphs, and they can at least appear to be decent people who just happen to have intermarried. But this simple, easy standard, it has been impossible for any WMAF couple to meet. Its really shocking. And this is them on their best behavior, trying to pretend that their relationship is based on colorblind live and not racism and sexism. They are trying to prove they can be good parents to Half-Asian children. And yet these degenerates can’t go 2 seconds, without dropping extremely offensive, racist, sexist, outrages. And this is them on their best behavior trying to prove they are not racist but just starcrossed lovers. It amazes me. Every single WMAF apologist, without fail, will drop some extremist, racist, imperialist, colonialist, sexist, far right statement, while they are trying to prove the exact opposite. At this point, its so against their own self-interest that it seems almost like a pathology. A racist sexist Tourette’s syndrome. If this is them showing their best public face to political correctness, one can only imagine what monsters they are off screen. And these are the parents of Eurasian kids. They can’t type 2 lines, without extreme racism against their own children.
Just for once, it would be nice if there was a genuinely decent white guy, who just happened to meet a woman, who happened to be Asian, and there wasn’t any sexism, imperialism, racism involved. But at least on the internet that seems utterly impossible. White men who like Asian women, seem unable to control their racist Tourette’s. They can’t go 2 seconds, without going on a rant against western women and people of color. It amazes me. And its not to say its all clear sailing for the decent white guy. I consider my parents to basically be in that category, and yet I’m the one who started this freaking blog. The racial and sexual categories do matter irregardless of individuals. But WMAF couples seem to be unable to muster an ounce of decency on the individual level. They are incredible hypocrites when they attack the Hapa sons of “bad parents”, since they are the textbook example of the bad couple themselves. At this point a “good” decent, colorblind WMAF couple is a purely theoretical concept, a unicorn. At least on the internet, which seems to bring out the worst in people. But its not like WMAF is bad online, but happy and shiny in real life. These are the views of offline WMAF couples.
It wasn’t my intention to demonize all WMAF couples. I wanted to say that if your relationship is based on racism and sexism against your own children, you are a monster, and you are going to have big problems. But the longer my blog remains online, the more comments I get, the more public Eurasian problems become, the more I see that the overwhelming majority of WMAF couples really are monstrous. Based on the worst trash of 21st century society. The type of pure undiluted racism and sexism, you thought was left behind in 1945. A new type of sexualized racism, that traditional narratives of black-white racism are not fit to cover. There is a bit of a generation gap in that their Hapa kids are still young and can’t talk back to them yet. Although for some weird reason, there are a lot of young Asian moms posting online about how their toddler Eurasian sons already hate them. But that aside, for the most part it is the Eurasians born in the late 1990s and early 2000s, a period from which the Eurasian population doubles, who are just coming of age now, and beginning to come to grips with the hell they are in. It is an exciting time, but a tragic time, don’t be surprised by the extreme bitterness that is going to come out of them. I encourage any skeptics, to not take my word for it. Do a little googling on your own and see what WMAF couples are about. And then ask if its so shocking that Eurasians are so full of deep psychological issues.